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Does Life Get Better After Someone You Love Dies?

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Does Life Get Better After Someone You Love Dies

Last Updated: 02-01-2017

There is no simple yes or no answer to this question. Everything depends on a myriad of factors – for instance, the nature of your relationship with the deceased and how close the two of you were. Was he or she your partner, your parent, daughter, or son? Such factors will definitely influence how you feel about the death of your loved one, and how long it will take for you to have even some semblance of your previous life back. However, you should never lose hope. If you put in sufficient effort into finding peace, then things will definitely get easier.

Here are a few tips from our compassionate wrongful death lawyers on how you can take back control of your life and work towards making things feel a bit easier:

Take time to grieve

They say time heals all wounds. And it does, even for the most traumatic of experiences such as the death of a loved one. Understand that different people grieve differently due to various factors, including how close they were to the deceased. For this reason, do not set deadlines for yourself. If you need time off work, then take it. If you feel that you need solitude and time to think about your loved one, then do it. The next few hours, days, weeks, or even months are the most difficult. After some time, things will definitely feel a little easier if you take charge of your life.

Don’t bottle up any negative feelings

What makes it difficult for most people to cope with the loss of a loved one is the fact that they do not express or allow themselves to feel any negative feelings they might have. If you feel like crying, then do it. If you feel as if you are angry, sad, miserable, or depressed, then find someone older you trust and share with them these feelings. Bottling up any negative feelings could make it more difficult for you to cope. It could also lengthen the time it will take you to come to terms with your loss.

Get professional legal help

Having to deal with funeral and other expenses or insurance settlements on your own is very difficult especially in cases where the deceased was the breadwinner of the family. An estate agent lawyer will help you to get the deceased’s estate affairs in order so that you can quickly get the money you might need for burial plans. Experienced wrongful death lawyers could give you advice on what to do if the death of your loved one was accidental and also whether or not to take any settlement offer given by an insurance company. Hiring a lawyer could remove the stress of having to negotiate with insurance companies or having to wonder how you will survive without the support of the deceased.

Join a support group

Sharing your experiences with others who have had similar experiences could help you to take back the control of your life. The other support group members will also be sharing their similar experiences. You will likely get some tips on how to cope after the loss and even learn how some of the other members have been able to make their lives better after losing someone.

Contact a spiritual counselor

Spiritual counselors are trained to help you overcome grief. When you feel as if things are not getting better then it’s time to involve a spiritual counselor. He or she will definitely have special techniques and therapies to help you heal.


As you can see, with time and a little bit of effort, you can make things better. Don’t give up on hope and do not worry if you feel overwhelmed. Work towards healing and it will get easier with time!

Last Updated: 03-24-2017